Keeping a child happy during errands
When Aubrey was a toddler, she and I often went shopping and ran errands. She enjoyed listening and signing along to music in the car. And when we arrived at the store, she would quietly sit in a shopping cart or stroller, munching on a snack, reading a book or playing with a toy I picked up off the shelf. Leaving the house with Riley is a completely different story.
Riley starts fussing the minute her bottom touches the car seat. She begs to get “out, out, out” of the shopping cart or stroller. She will look at a book or toy for about two seconds and then toss it on the ground. (She actually finds this tossing game to be quite funny, but it makes shopping rather difficult.) She’ll begrudgingly munch on a snack or two, but then she quickly decides she really wants (fill in the blank), the only snack I didn’t bring in my bag. So then she’s right back to demanding that I get her “out, out, out.”
If I would let Riley race around the store like a tornado, pulling things of the shelves and grabbing whatever she found interesting, she would be a pretty big fan of trips to the store. Shopping with her in tow, however, would become that much more impossible.
Of course Riley loves trips to the park and the play area at the mall, but there are times when I have to go to Target for paper towels or to Publix for milk. Do I really have to resort to starting all my shopping when the sun goes down?
I am crossing my fingers in hopes that Riley’s disgust toward running errands will eventually come to an end when she gets a little older. Do you have a child who isn’t fond of going to the store? Do you have any tricks to keep little ones occupied? My best bribery thus far is a can of play-dough, but even that only works for so long.
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I read this and thought. Wow I am not the only one that dreads running errands with my little 2 and a half year old boy. It is worse though he will not want to walk where I want to walk going limp and making it impossible for me to navigate. Then this looks horrible to others when I pick him up and he starts screaming and having a HUGE temper tantrum. Sometimes I let him take over other times I try to be the strong one. Any ways, it is hard. It is nice to see though others have a hard time as well. Perhaps this is just a part of the terrible twos. What is really frustrating though is he doesn’t talk yet. Frustrating probably for him as well. He has been diagnosed with autism and I am not sure on what spectrum he is. Regardless communication is hard. I try to be the most patient person in the world.
by Steph Levy
I’m sure that is so hard Steph! Just the other day, Riley was screaming her head off as we were leaving Target, and I felt like everyone had their eyes on me! She was just mad that she couldn’t get out of the cart. :-/ Hopefully they will be out of this phase soon! Fingers crossed!
by Stacy Fournier
My wife and I got a good laugh out of your blog post. I was tired of “scrapping” crumbs off of the back seat so we looked for a service that would watch our kids during errands. We found http://www.errandsunlimited1.com. They are great! They came to our house and did house cleaning as well while we were out. (My wife loves these ladies!)
by Bjorn Button